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'I wear it on my middle finger': The rise of the defiant divorce ring

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'I wear it on my middle finger': The rise of the defiant divorce ring

A rising trend among women is the purchase or redesign of jewelry into a "divorce ring" to mark a new chapter after the end of a marriage. Women like Deb Marino, a Florida-based blogger, are choosing to reset their engagement ring diamonds into new designs rather than locking them away, often wearing them on their middle finger as a defiant statement. Deb spent over $2,000 having her diamond set in an open circle with a new sapphire to represent her daughter, viewing it as a better investment than selling the ring for a fraction of its original price. The trend is being promoted by jewelers worldwide and aligns with what fashion pages are calling "hot divorcee summer," celebrating liberated glamour and independence. Kate Daly, co-founder of a UK divorce mediation company, says divorce rings can also represent financial liberation, as buying a new ring can be a woman's first major solo spending decision after a divorce. Ceri Evans from Wales bought a £3,000 diamond ring as a "declaration of independence," paying for it with her own money rather than her divorce settlement. Alex Proie in Pennsylvania had her five-year anniversary band remade into a ring with seven diamonds and a wave design to symbolize life's highs and lows. After coming out as gay and separating from her husband, she says the ring reminds her of how she rebuilt her life from the ground up. The trend allows women to carry a piece of their past while asserting their autonomy and resilience.

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